Welcome to the first edition of the Eros Events Newsletter. We want to thank our members for their tremendous support. It has been 8 ½ years since we had our first event back in early 2003, and the parties are growing each and every month. This newsletter is a way for us to inform our members, and potential members, about what is happening at the events – any improvements, and also what our future plans are. There will be many more years of exciting and fun parties where you will meet some of your best friends and have a great time.
Eros Feedback Request
We welcome feedback with party theme suggestions, comments, questions or ideas you may have. Some of the best ideas come from our members.
This is what we would like to know from you:
- Themes you like the most. The least?
- A new sexually-based theme you would like Eros to try
- A favorite Eros meal that you would like to have repeated
- A specific dessert that you would like us to serve more often
- More vegetarian dishes? Finger foods?
- Beverages (non-alcoholic) you would like to have
- Change the layout/setup in the group play areas/bedrooms
- Other, safer sex supplies that you would like provided
- A game or activity that encourages mingling
- Suggestions about the dance area/specific sexy dance songs
- Different way to use the outbuilding cabins for play or games?
You can email us or call with your comments. There will be a suggestion box in the social area for those members who wish to remain anonymous. We may not be able to implement all of the suggestions, but serious consideration will be given to all ideas. All positive and constructive input is welcomed.
Previous Events
The parties have been going very well lately, and this is because of many things, not the least of which is our hardworking staff and volunteers. New members and a massage specialist were recently added to our staff. Let us know if you are interested in joining our staff team. Other contributing factors are: new theme and seasonal decorating in the pool room, and upgrading the menu – both of which are helping to provide a consistently good, delicious, and fun party for everyone.
Our eighth anniversary party was held on March 5th. We spent some time talking with members about how much we appreciated their support. It was great to see some couples from our first year (2003). The parties are only as good as the people who are there, so we thank you all for coming out to see us at Eros.
Wild Singles Night – this latest edition of our singles party went well. We had lots of singles join us (we watch the ratio of men to women closely), and then couples who like to add an additional person to their playtime. Speed dating for Singles was great and we were asked to repeat this activity at the next singles night.
The extra July pool party was lots of fun. The last session of Couples Speed Dating went very well. Speed Dating is a great way to chat and meet multiple couples at one time. We had festive blow up beach balls in the pool with people enjoying a soothing dip or a relaxing soak in the hot tub.
Upcoming Events
Several popular themes are coming up after the summer break – one of which is our Hawaiian BBQ/Jim’s birthday party on Friday, August 19th.
For the Friday following Labor Day Weekend we are hosting Threesome Night with Sexy Games, which is always a “playful” party – Friday, September 9th.
Also, the ever popular Amateur Strip Night with an added Burlesque theme will make an exciting return to Eros on Friday, September 23rd. The very talented “Diamond” will return with another outstanding and provocative performance.
Friday, September – 9th - Threesome Night
Friday, September – 23rd – Amateur Strip Night and Burlesque Show
Friday, October 7th – 70s Dance and Dress Night
Friday, October 21st – Halloween Costume and Dance Party
Friday, November 4th – New Couples Night
Friday, November 18th – Bi-Female Night and All-Girl Orgy
Friday, December 2nd – Wild Singles Night
Friday, December 16th – Erotic Holiday party
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“Dear Jim and Mandy”
A variety of topics will be covered here that are designed to not only help new couples feel more comfortable at events but for member couples with questions as well.
Event Rules
Will we feel pressure to participate before we are ready?
You will not feel any pressure to join in before you are ready. Let me repeat. Never do anything you don’t want to. Our members know that this is one of our most important rules, and no one is permitted to violate it. Always proceed at your own pace. Take your time. If you ever feel pressure from another member, simply speak with us or one of our staff. We will discreetly speak with them so that this behavior is not repeated. You will never be identified as the complainant. If the behavior is repeated, they will be asked to leave and may not be able to return to future events.
Lifestyle Etiquette
How do you approach another couple?
Approach them together and ask to sit with them. Having a conversation is a good idea. Talk about what you are interested in doing and ask them what they are interested in. Use words like “play” or “get together” as some couples find certain guttural words offensive. There may not be a connection that night; however, we recommend staying and talking with them anyway. This shows a real desire to get to know them. Remember: there is always another time if they feel like they have gotten to know you a little.
For more anonymous encounters, if you see a couple in one of the play rooms, position yourself close or next to them. Make a comment that you enjoy watching them together. If you are on a bed next to them, extend a hand over to one of the partners. You can gently touch a hand to see if you get a go-ahead to continue. Making eye contact with one of the partners can often work. They may answer verbally or non-verbally, but watch for subtle cues. If you want another couple to come and join you, then you can quietly ask if they wish to join you, or “wink” at them, or wiggle your finger towards them – these are playful ideas that will help break the ice.
We are so pleased to have this new way to communicate with our members. It is our goal to host quality events, and we are constantly looking for new ways to improve the parties. We welcome your thoughts and hope that you will participate in this process with us.
This is our website – http://eros-events.org – you will find lots of helpful information listed there including:
- Event schedule
- Tour of event location
- FAQs
- Rules
- Blog
Our blog on the website is where you can review past event themes and other items of interest, and you can either bookmark the blog, or subscribe to it with an RSS reader. Please feel free to forward this newsletter to couples and single females who might be interested in coming out to a party. If you invite a couple who attends a party you will receive a $20 discount off your party fee. Contact us via email if you would like to receive upcoming event notices and we will add you to the mailing list. We welcome you to join us for one of our fun Friday Night parties.
Your Eros Events hosts,
Jim and Mandy
Eros Events
website: http://eros-events.org
blog: http://eros-events.org/eros-blog/
email: info@eros-events.org
phone: (425) 868-8169