Frequently Asked Questions(FAQs)
What type of people attend the events We have a diverse group of friendly, social, and open minded people who attend each party. Some of them are experienced in the lifestyle, and some are brand new and just want to observe at first. New couples are always invited to attend any party regardless of the theme. All party themes and activities are optional participation with many rooms open to general regular activity and fun.
How do you describe the facility location Our events are held at a home-like retreat center in Redmond, WA, surrounded by acres of natural and beautiful grounds. We have lots of indoor play space for group fun, as well as areas that are more private for intimate moments with special friends. There are many fun play rooms, a wonderful heated indoor pool plus hot tub where swimming suits are optional, dance area with great music, and a brass pole often used for erotic fun events. We have access to an outbuilding cabin that is semi-private and has a loft and two king sized beds; a very popular area that our members enjoy. Check out our tour page to view photos of various rooms inside our party location.
What does it cost to attend; do you have an initiation or membership fee Please see the dues section of the home page.
What is the age range Generally our age range is from early 20's to 50's, every gathering is unique.
Do you allow single males to attend We have a limited number of pre-approved single males attend each event based on the number of couples and single females that will be in attendance. New single males who wish to become members need to attend a swim party first before they can be permitted to attend one of our evening events. If you have a reference from an existing member, please let us know.
Do single females attend YES! Almost every party includes several single females. We have many single females who have attended our parties for their first lifestyle event as a single, and some have become regular attendees and staff members.
Can a member couple bring an extra single person to a party Yes, single female guests are unrestricted at this time. If you wish to bring an extra male guest to a party, we ask you to do the following. First of all, we ask that you have met in person and are not just on-line friends. This is because we ask you to vouch for their good behavior, and also that they will follow the event and facility rules. Secondly, if you do get permission to bring another man with you then he would need to attend the orientation meeting, and if you leave for the night we would ask that your party all leave at the same time. Single females are always permitted to bring a date with them, but the same rules apply to them as couples - you have met in person, he attends orientation, and then you need to leave together.
What should we wear Women wear casual clothing and sexy little outfits and bring lingerie and robes to change into as the evening progresses. Men wear casual clothing and bring robes and towels to change into as the evening progresses. We will occasionally host special themed events, with details for optional dress for that evening.
Is food provided Yes, we have a wide variety of potluck food and snacks. If you have a potluck item that you would like to bring and share with everyone we would really appreciate it. We provide soft beverages which include bottled water, soft drinks, coffee and tea (evening parties for hot drinks). We also have a midnight snack (evening parties) to help re-energize everyone, which usually includes platters of fresh sandwiches and hot-out-of-the-oven chocolate chip cookies.
Is smoking allowed at the events Not indoors, but we have a covered smoking area on our patio which is just outside the pool and dance area.
Is it OK to bring pets if left in the car No, pets or animals are not permitted on the property (including left in a car) as we use a spiritual sanctuary space, and it is against the facility policies. Please email, or call, us with any questions.
What are the rules at each event Refer to our rules page to review our detailed party guidelines.
What should we bring If you plan to use the pool or hot tub, you may want to bring a towel with you as we have a limited supply of towels for the members to use at the event. If you plan to stay overnight, you can bring a blanket (we have a small supply available at the facility). We provide lots of clean sheets for your playing and sleeping use. It is advised to bring a small duffel bag with you to hold your items; change of clothes, robe, small play bag with your preferred safer sex items. There is a cubbyhole area available in the pool room to store your items. We do not have a locker setup so please do not bring valuables with you into the building. Instead, please lock them in your vehicle but do not set any car alarms.
Are cell phones or cameras allowed at the parties Any type of photo or video photography is strictly prohibited inside or outside the properly. Cell phone usage prohibited at the parties anywhere inside the buildings. It's best to leave cell phones in your locked vehicle, but can be left at the front desk or stored on your person, bag, or jacket as long as it is either turned off or on silent mode and is never taken out and used in any way inside the buildings. Usage of a cell phone (other than the camera) can be used outside the buildings (anywhere that is not covered). Usage of a cell phone for calls, text, email, etc. is best done while inside your vehicle in the parking lot.
What time do the events start and how late do they go Our events start at 8:00pm. If it is your first time attending an event, we ask you to arrive by about 8:30 pm for the new person orientation which will begin shortly thereafter. It will last approximately 20-30 minutes. The theme portion of the evening generally starts at about 10:00pm. Returning member couples can arrive as late as they wish. There is no fixed time that each event ends. You can spend the night with us at no additional charge. We ask that everyone who spends the night is up and showered and leaving the facility by 11am at the latest.
What kind of referral discounts do you offer Please see the dues section of the home page.
What is the best way to make reservations Email, or call, for reservations unless it is after 2:00pm on the day of a party — then we prefer you call, as we are not able to check email often on the afternoon/evening of an event. Couples and single females who are existing members can still attend an event without reservations.